How did you become the Nice Girl?
Have you heard this before? You are such a nice girl.
Since you were a little girl you were taught and encouraged to try hard to be “Nice”. You were taught that Nice girls don’t cry, don’t get angry, and they don’t say anything if they don’t have anything nice to say. Nice girls do what they are told.
Nice girls learn to say yes, when they really want to say NO. They learn how to agree, accept, pretend…and look nice.